Oh, Fuckery

Oh, fuckery. You know when you are so busy that you wake up and you’re like, “AHHHHHHHHH AHHHHHH…… AHHHH”? I really hate that feeling.

It’s like this for me every April, with the onslaught of fresh brides preparing for their first dance. So last night, (3:00 a.m. is technically “last night,” right?) as I was sweating bullets trying to get the post out for today, I had my own Damn, Girl, Get Your Shit Together moment.

I always talk about “self care” and I need to take my own advice.

I am taking April off from the blog, but I will be back in May! I’ll still be reading your blogs, but forgive me if I don’t comment!

I’m not going to do a whole sobby sign off, because that is ridiculous. I’ll be back in three weeks… I’m not crying! You’re crying! Shut up!

Seriously, it’s hard. I am so entrenched in your lives and this community that just going away for a few weeks feels like I’m going off to war lol.

Ok, lovelies, I will see you soon!

Love, Tiara.

62 thoughts on “Oh, Fuckery

  1. So you may not be Superwoman? The bubble is burst! You cut US out to be with THEM?
    Okay then, get some rest and don’t forget to have a little fun. See you when you get back.


  2. I was looking for a post, like, DID I MISS IT?! lol but you are so right to take the time you need to focus on other business responsibilities. You’re followers will be right here waiting for more advice when you return.

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  3. I’ve always secretly wanted to smack someone who was crying and say, Get your shit together. Why are you taking that perfect moment away from me? So many levels it would have worked. I’ll see you on the other side. Make the most of it!

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  4. Oh the humanity!! 😭😭 Say it isn’t so!
    I had to do the same thing for two weeks, needed to “Get My Shit Together” and prioritize my life! Turned 51 last week and that shit was mad real! Don’t know if I hit my stride, but it did renew my resolve!!
    You will be sadly missed Tiara!!
    Be well Girl!!
    Rest, recharge and relax!! See you in May!! xo

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  5. Be kind to you. I know what you mean, though. I was posting every single day for a long time. Then I had a few days when I didn’t. People were ready to send the cops to my house with a mirror to hold under my nose. Now I warn them when I’m backed up and might not be posting. We will weep, but also cope. Are you a dancer?

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  6. Tiara, you are a role model for self-care as actions speak louder than words! I hope many other bloggers who feel overwhelmed in different areas of life, learn from your example, name what they need and follow through, like you, with positive actions!

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  7. I just took a month off of my blog and all I can tell you is that it’s definitely worth it. I hope you enjoy your break 🙂

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  8. Good luck with your busy April! I think a break now and then is good! You’ll only return refreshed and happier with the community 🙂
    We will sorely miss you until then!

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